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Okay, can we talk about how being ghosted feels like getting hit by a truck, but in a subtle way?
Like one minute you’re vibing, and the next you’re staring at the three dots in your chat like they’re some kind of riddle you just can’t solve.
You know the ones: the ones that never actually show up.
And let’s be real, the mind games start. Was I too much? Not enough? Maybe I should’ve sent that TikTok video I wanted to share… Would that have changed things?
But then, you sit there and realise — wait, hold up, this isn’t on me.
Ghosting is literally a reflection of their inability to communicate, not your worth as a person.
It’s not just the silence that gets to you, it’s the what now?
It’s like getting left on read during a game of emotional dodgeball.
You’re stuck wondering if they’re just going through something or if they’re really out here pretending you didn’t exist.
But listen — if they can’t show up and communicate like an adult, then do you really need them in your life?
I mean, I’d rather be left on read than left in a situation where I’m questioning my worth.
And that’s the truth.
