I’m Much Happier Alone

Solitude has taught me to love who I am

Photo by Amistad Cristiana on Unsplash

I am happier alone.

Not lonely — alone.

There’s a difference.

When I’m surrounded by people who don’t truly understand or value me, I feel lonelier than when I’m enjoying my own company.

In the past, I spent time with “friends” who left me feeling drained, unappreciated, and out of place.

The constant pressure to fit in, to keep up appearances, or to entertain conversations I didn’t care about — it wasn’t worth it.

I felt like I was wasting precious time on relationships that didn’t feed my soul.

But being alone? It’s liberating.

Solitude gives me space to think, to breathe, and to focus on what really matters: myself.

I can spend my days pursuing hobbies I love, setting goals, and improving my life without worrying about anyone else’s judgment.

I’ve come to value my own company.

I’ve found joy in simple things like reading, cooking for myself, or walking alone in nature.

Choosing solitude doesn’t mean I’ve shut myself off from the world — it means I’ve chosen to prioritise quality over quantity in relationships.