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Stop Comparing Yourself To Others

You are your only competition

Mia
2 min readJan 3, 2025
Photo by Jordan Steranka on Unsplash

You see someone achieving milestones you haven’t reached, and you think, “Why am I not there yet?” But have you ever considered that your path is unique and incomparable?

You hear that someone has a better job, a bigger house, or a more exciting life, and you think, “Am I falling behind?” But have you ever asked yourself what truly makes you happy?

Comparison is a thief.

It steals your joy, your focus, and the gratitude you owe yourself for how far you’ve come.

Every person is living a story you cannot fully see.

You don’t know their sacrifices, their struggles, or the moments they’ve spent doubting themselves.

You see someone on social media travelling the world or seemingly living a perfect life, and you think, “What am I doing wrong?” But have you ever wondered if their highlight reel hides struggles similar to your own?

You think someone else is happier, more successful, or more fulfilled, but have you ever paused to celebrate your own achievements and growth?

Your only competition is the person you were yesterday.

The only path worth following is the one that leads to your own dreams — not someone else’s.

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