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You are not hard to love

You’re just someone who deserves love that’s real

Mia
3 min readOct 29, 2024
Created by author on Bing AI

Stop doubting yourself

Stop thinking there’s something about you that makes you difficult to love.

This mindset, this constant worry that maybe you’re not enough, is like a weight you carry around — a weight that’s simply not yours to bear.

You don’t need to keep changing, shrinking, or molding yourself to fit an idea of someone else’s version of “loveable.”

You are worth more than that.

You’re not hard to love; you’re just someone who deserves love that’s real.

Too often, we look to others to tell us we’re enough.

We put ourselves under this pressure to be liked, to be seen as perfect, to be admired.

And in doing so, we forget the most important opinion of all: our own.

Why do we place so much importance on the acceptance of others when we are still learning to accept ourselves?

We forget that loving ourselves is the foundation that allows others to love us in return.

And the more you seek validation from others, the further you get from understanding that your worth doesn’t lie in someone…

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